May 14, 2019
Do you find that you like everything to be perfect? That you can’t stand it when you let someone down? Do you have a low tolerance for mistakes? And does forgiving yourself seem impossible?
Lauren and I dissect our lives as we talk about what perfectionism is, why we can’t stand making mistakes, and how to forgive ourselves. You’ll also hear about the mistake Lauren made for a charity event, the time I hit a 95-year old man with my car, and an email from a fan declaring his love for me. You won’t want to miss this episode.
Recently, Lauren left off her partner’s logo on a graphic promoting a charity event. She felt horrible.
Here’s one question to ask yourself when you’re struggling with being perfect: What is the truth in this situation?
Lauren believes that she’s not so much a perfectionist, but someone who doesn’t want to let anyone down. When she does make a mistake, she resolves to be better only to let someone down again.
Here are several questions to ask yourself when you’re struggling with being perfect:
Others may forgive you far more easily than you forgive yourself.
Here’s one question to ask yourself when things don’t go as you planned: Can I forgive myself when I make a mistake?
Remember that perfectionism can show up in body image and unrealistic expectations. Read this Psychology Today article, Mothers are Drowning in Stress, to get an idea.
Here are two more questions to ask when you’re struggling with perfectionism, making mistakes, and forgiving yourself:
If you struggle with perfectionism and a low tolerance for mistakes, will you get back with us?
Let us know if you struggle in these areas too!
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Lauren Trantham’s superpower is fierce tenderheartedness. Just imagine an elite ninja crossed with a hopeful romantic and you can understand her personality! She believes in black coffee, dark beer, shooting straight liquor, and that true strength lies in vulnerability. When she is not riding her motorcycle or traveling the world she is helping entrepreneurs find their authentic message so they can grow their business by getting real.
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This episode was originally published on shamelesslyfeminine.com/episode44.